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I deleted a bunch of people whose journals I don't read and ones that probably don't read mine. I probably won't add you back if you ask. Please defriend me if you will.
Also I'm going to be more careful what I post here. Again. I thought I could post a rant about a person without people getting all up in arms about it, but I was wrong. The rant was not intended for the person's eyes. If it were, I would have showed it to them, unlocked it. It was a means of blowing off some steam. It wasn't meant to offend.
I apologize for how out of hand this is getting. It's ridiculous. It should have just been done when I defriended the poor girl. Instead it's gotten into one of the most ridiculous things I've seen.
And that, my friends is the end of this. I have nothing else to say. I'm making this public. Should Jay or Nat like to speak their mind, please do it to my face. Don't do it on
shitlist and don't try to turn people against me. And don't send your friends to fight for you. This is between us. Handle it like a mature woman.
Similarly, I am not nor would I ever consider disregarding your fiction, Jay. I am a moderator, not a dictator. Should you choose to post fiction on
patrickxpeter or any of my other communities, I will not delete it, reject it, etc. I hope that, should our paths cross again you shall keep that in mind. Let's handle this like adults, shall we?
EDIT: And because Laurie brought it up.
gamblore did not shitlist me. Just thought I should stress that. Someone who I never even talked to shitlisted me. I should have worded that differently. But yeah. Still sucks. Though I do have to admit, the bulk of the comments arguing whose thighs were better was pretty lolzworthy
Also I'm going to be more careful what I post here. Again. I thought I could post a rant about a person without people getting all up in arms about it, but I was wrong. The rant was not intended for the person's eyes. If it were, I would have showed it to them, unlocked it. It was a means of blowing off some steam. It wasn't meant to offend.
I apologize for how out of hand this is getting. It's ridiculous. It should have just been done when I defriended the poor girl. Instead it's gotten into one of the most ridiculous things I've seen.
And that, my friends is the end of this. I have nothing else to say. I'm making this public. Should Jay or Nat like to speak their mind, please do it to my face. Don't do it on
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Similarly, I am not nor would I ever consider disregarding your fiction, Jay. I am a moderator, not a dictator. Should you choose to post fiction on
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EDIT: And because Laurie brought it up.
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Date: 2006-11-14 06:55 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2006-11-14 11:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-11-14 07:43 pm (UTC)People suck. That's why I just post anything seriously rant-ish, especially about other people, on private nowadays. Just not worth the chance. I mean, I'm not saying that you should be expected to or HAVE to - it's just what I've learned is the best way. Actually, I usually end up writing huge rants and then I just close the window without actually posting it at all (public or private) so I still manage to organize my thoughts and blow off steam without having any drama to look back on lol.
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Date: 2006-11-14 08:50 pm (UTC)I looked for the post too. I was going to lol and maybe post to it and smack a few people. But I couldn't find it.
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Date: 2006-11-14 10:19 pm (UTC)You need to be a member of the comm to make comments. It's really not worth it as everyone is really on edge about the whole "OMG IT WAS POSTED A WEEK AGO WHY MENTION IT NOW?"
um maybe because unlike some people I don't have the comm added to my f-list and the only reason I learned about it was because someone IMed me and told me Oo
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Date: 2006-11-16 04:37 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-11-14 10:12 pm (UTC)It's actually pretty amusing. and cringeworthy mainly because I just hate it when people use chatspeak as a way of illustrating a point. In essence, the girl just made the whole thing that I thought would have been the bulk of the shitlisting really...undermined.
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Date: 2006-11-14 10:41 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2006-11-14 11:37 pm (UTC)And although the thighs argument was all ridiculous, Patrick's thighs top any other thighs.no subject
Date: 2006-11-15 12:06 am (UTC)Just like Bdon's ass and RyRo's... makeup? o-oBut the level of maturity (or rather, lack of) is ridiculous. The hypocrisy, too. It kind of makes me want to laugh, and then again, it kind of makes me want to reach through the monitor and punch a few bitches in the face. Maybe someday that will be possible. (And even if shitlist is meant to start drama, people could at least start 'mature' drama. If there even is such a thing. 'Cause chatspeak is lame.)
But all in all. Ily, Chrissy. ♥ And I'm glad that you're handling this way more maturely than others are.
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Date: 2006-11-15 04:10 am (UTC)8D